Typically, the good deed was inspired by miscommunication. I was under the impression that the band needed T-shirts to sell at the show on Saturday, so I arranged to get some made, only to get a heart-breaking note from the drummer's wife that she had busted her ass all weekend making T-shirts, and wouldn't have spent the time and money if she'd known we were going to buy them. She felt unappreciated, her effort ignored.
My understanding, and that of other members of the band, was that, at most, only a few T-shirts were going to be made, none for sale.
I felt terrible, and called and spoke to her. Hopefully, explaining the situation, she knows that I meant no disrespect for her, that I do value her efforts, and have in the past.
Of course, all this was a communications problem. My band mostly communicates through emails and Facebook private group message threads. The drummer rarely participates. His last communication was early in the weekend when he said he was working on shirts to sell and give away, and would have shirts for the staff. Then, nothing, while messages went out about how many shirts we had, and would we have enough for the show? But no more communications from the drummer.
The kicker? Yesterday, when I first got the message from the drummers wife, and during the subsequent conversations, I was wearing one of the Tees the drummer and his wife had previously made for me.
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Today's Weight: 206.2 lbs
Food and Diet Section
First-half year 2013 daily weight |
Yesterday's Weight: 206.8 lbs
Day Net Loss/Gain: - 0.6 lbs
Diet Comment
A change of direction, thankfully. However slight, it is the right direction.
Food Log
BreakfastCocoa-kale-hemp-chia protein shake: Almond milk, kale, cocoa, hemp seeds, chia gel, a large egg, vanilla whey powder (24g protein), cinnamon, vanilla, psillium and stevia-inulin blend.
Lunch
Roasted turkey breast on Spring Mix, baby spinach and cole slaw mix with balsamic vinaigrette. |
Dinner
Coffee: 30 oz. Water: 140+ oz.
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Oh well, not such a big deal. Love you
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