Post 2760
- 11 years and 302 days since I started this blog -
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| September 25, 2021 |
I met with my lawyers today to finalize my end-of-life papers.
It was surprisingly unemotional.
But the decision to go forward and (finally, pun intended) get it done was emotional. Two emotions, mainly: Anger and love.
My father's lack of a will created a months-long complicated aftermath. It was fortunate that, at least, he had told me that he wanted me to be executor and that that lined up easily with the legal requirements for the same (when there is no documentation).
And my brother's death, with sparse documentation after living a life where he was solely handling the family's finances, left one of the worst situations this family has encountered.
It was surprisingly unemotional.
But the decision to go forward and (finally, pun intended) get it done was emotional. Two emotions, mainly: Anger and love.
My father's lack of a will created a months-long complicated aftermath. It was fortunate that, at least, he had told me that he wanted me to be executor and that that lined up easily with the legal requirements for the same (when there is no documentation).
And my brother's death, with sparse documentation after living a life where he was solely handling the family's finances, left one of the worst situations this family has encountered.
Which is still ongoing.
And, as much as anything, I am angry about these two situations.
Because I love my son Alex, and I expect him to survive me, I am making certain he does not inherit any estate problems from me when I die. I am taking steps to ensure that he has full information - account #s, IDs and passwords, where they make sense.
So, anger and love.
I'm grateful for the abundance to make an inheritance, and for life's lessons that can benefit my heir.
Previous Weight (10/28/21): 201.7 lbs.
Net Loss/Gain: - 0.2 lbs.
Diet Comment
A little loss today, but that's okay.
Lunch
Skipped.
Dinner
8:30pm: Keto probiotic snack mix (nuts, seeds, cheese) and a Quest bar.
Liquid Intake
Food Log
Breakfast
3:55pm: Chicken and greens ramen (ViteRamen high-protein miso ramen noodles kit, roasted chicken, an egg, kale, spinach, nutritional yeast).
3:55pm: Chicken and greens ramen (ViteRamen high-protein miso ramen noodles kit, roasted chicken, an egg, kale, spinach, nutritional yeast).
Lunch
Skipped.
Dinner
8:30pm: Keto probiotic snack mix (nuts, seeds, cheese) and a Quest bar.
Liquid Intake
Espressos: 1; Coffee: 0 oz.; Water: 64+ oz.;
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