Post 1214, Day 175 of 2014
- 1,271 days since I started this blog -
- 1,271 days since I started this blog -
That probably means I have been rude myself, although if so, it was unintentional. It makes me uncomfortable when I see it, but do I act on that discomfort?
Do I take offense? Is that overly self-righteous?
I try to set a good example, and I guess I have to leave it at that - which is to say, if I get uncomfortable with the behavior of people I am with, I leave.
Removing myself avoids confrontation, which I haven't found to be productive. Confrontation seems to lead to defensive behavior, and that seems to escalate to the point where mutual understanding is not possible, and that does nobody any good.
It also like to think that I am not that judgmental. I may or may not be perceiving the behavior correctly. My discomfort is telling me something, but it may not be about what I'm observing.
I'll look for clarity from a distance. Best to leave.
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Previous Weight: 207.8 lbs
Day Net Loss/Gain: - 0.6 lbs
Diet Comment
I'm hoping this is loss marks, at least, a temporary top.Diet Comment
Food Log
Breakfast
Lunch
Dinner
A tub of edamame hummos.
Snack
Pepperoni and a Quest bar.
Liquid Intake
Roasted turkey breast salad (with celery and home-made mayonnaise) on Spring Mix greens, baby kale, and cole slaw mix and balsamic vinaigrette. |
Pepperoni and a Quest bar.
Liquid Intake
Coffee: 28 oz. Water: 116+ oz.
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i think rudeness is an unconscious expression of unrecognized fear. How does one handle unrecognized fear in oneself and others?
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I don't know if I agree - I think it is usually a manifestation of self-absorption without any self-perception.
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