Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Tuesday, June 24

Post 1214, Day 175 of 2014
- 1,271 days since I started this blog -
Daily Comment
Is being intolerant of rudeness too judgmental? I have been really sensitive (oversensitive?) to rude behavior lately.

That probably means I have been rude myself, although if so, it was unintentional. It makes me uncomfortable when I see it, but do I act on that discomfort? 

Do I take offense? Is that overly self-righteous? 

I try to set a good example, and I guess I have to leave it at that - which is to say, if I get uncomfortable with the behavior of people I am with, I leave.

Removing myself avoids confrontation, which I haven't found to be productive. Confrontation seems to lead to defensive behavior, and that seems to escalate to the point where mutual understanding is not possible, and that does nobody any good. 

It also like to think that I am not that judgmental. I may or may not be perceiving the behavior correctly. My discomfort is telling me something, but it may not be about what I'm observing.

I'll look for clarity from a distance. Best to leave.

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 Food and Diet Section
2014 Daily Weight
Today's Weight:         207.2 lbs
Previous Weight:        207.8 lbs
Day Net Loss/Gain:      - 0.6 lbs

Diet Comment
I'm hoping this is loss marks, at least, a temporary top.


Food Log 
Breakfast
A kale-hemp protein shake (almond-coconut milk, baby kale, large egg, raw organic cacao powder, hemp seeds, hemp protein (7g protein), chia gel, whey powder (24g protein), cinnamon and stevia-inulin blend.
Lunch
Roasted turkey breast salad (with celery and home-made mayonnaise) on Spring Mix greens, baby kale, and cole slaw mix and balsamic vinaigrette.
Dinner
A tub of edamame hummos.


Snack
Pepperoni and a Quest bar.

Liquid Intake
   Coffee:  28 oz.   Water: 116+ oz. 

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2 comments:

  1. i think rudeness is an unconscious expression of unrecognized fear. How does one handle unrecognized fear in oneself and others?

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  2. I don't know if I agree - I think it is usually a manifestation of self-absorption without any self-perception.

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