Friday, January 10, 2020

#2412: End of Week 1, in words


Post 2412
- 9 years and 10 days since I started this blog -
  
Journal
(written Jan 8-10, 2020)
Read this once (it won't change for the rest of the trip(s): I'll be linking this post to Facebook. If that's how you got here, here's some background: About 9 years ago I started this blog as a food journal. I had a medical situation and needed to lose weight. Initially, that's all I did here: Journal my food intake and my weight. It contributed to helping me lose 20+% of my body weight in 6 months, and continuing has kept me on track since then. I started adding commentary after a while, but lately it has become infrequent. 
While I'm traveling, I let go of the weight-tracking and food journaling, except for the occasional food shot when I've eaten something interesting. And that's where we find ourselves now.
There are some significant differences about this trip to Chiang Mai, Thailand and my two previous visits.

In both previous visits, I was here checking (and re-checking) Chiang Mai as a future residence. I have been planning to move overseas for decades, and have done as much research as I could on places that seemed (on paper) suitable. For the majority of the last twenty-five years I've been keeping a list of the five best places, Chiang Mai was in first or second place. It is one of two cities (the list is city-specific, not a list of countries).

However, a month after I left Chiang Mai last February, the government made policy changes to the already very tough and bureaucratically daunting visa regulations for permanent residency. To me, the changes were so odious (I don't want to get involved with the Thai banking system, and there's no way around it now), that Chiang Mai is no longer a candidate, late alone in the top spot, where it was before March of last year.

So this year is a kind of bittersweet (maybe) 'final' visit. If my current plan  holds, it will probably be at least two years before I can return here. It's a shame, because in every particular in my evaluation, Chiang Mai was the place. But now it isn't, and the next place on the list, Cuenca, Ecuador, looks enticing.

Cuenca has alternated with Chiang Mai in the top two spots on my retirement places list for the last couple of decades.

When I get there, you'll be treated to the kind of photo essays and collections you saw the last two visits to Chiang Mai. If I decide to move there permanently at the end of the year, I will only be able to travel for ninety days total out of the next two years. A visit to Chiang Mai might be difficult until after I have permanent residence, with multi-reentry ease.

But this trip to Thailand, I'm really just doing what I do, playing and eating and getting stoned and hanging out. Like in Syracuse, but with better and cheaper food. That's why you aren't seeing the kind of photos and stories as in the past. There's a lot of replay going on.

Not that there's nothing new.

I am meeting new musicians. I am making new friends. There are always new places and people. But I also have a long list of favored places I want to revisit - all of them, it seems, restaurants.

Wednesday night saw me returning to an area of Chiang Mai that I've spent a lot of time in during my previous visits. David had a gig backing up a musician he wanted me to hear and meet.


Pretty much the whole 'gang' of expats - almost all my friends - hang out in this little side street collection of open-to-the-street bars.


What I hear at the Lost Hut is a wonderful performer, Willie Salomon, who sings and plays 'country blues' - and does it well. And David is absolutely killing it backing him up on bass. The duet sounds great, every aspect of the music is balanced. The setting is very intimate - the Lost Hut only seats about two dozen people, but people stand outside to hear what's going down there. Since the weather is so nice (no rain, mid-seventies for temperature), it is common for people to do that, listen to the music in Chiang Mai's small clubs from the street. I've done it.

My friend Roddie (Clapton touring band member) is there, as are some other musicians I've jammed with in the past but not seen so far. Sitting next to me in front of Willie and David, he picks up his muted trumpet and joins in on a few songs. I feel blessed to be in the audience, sitting among these fabulous musicians. I want to play, but I'm entranced, and happy to just enjoy this excellent music from its midst.

A stellar night. I do eventually get to play a couple of songs, and, if that wasn't enough, someone comes up with a joint of what may be the best weed I've ever smoked. It's paradisiacal.

Thursday brings me to a new jam at a new club, the Why Not? House of Music. It's slightly out of town (actually, in the same area as Tikky Café's new location), but when I get there, I see a good-sized stage, and a familiar bass player in the house band.

The club owner comes to greet me in good English and I take a table that is shaped (and painted like) a Fender Stratocaster headstock. I get a Chang (Thai beer).

David's brought a guitar (he's a good guitarist, besides being a very good bass player), I have a bass. Pretty soon we're up, and I'm cranking out my 'standards', the songs I play at open mics at home in Syracuse: 'We Gotta Get Outta This Place', 'No Expectations', 'Wicked Games', 'All Over Now', 'Who Is He'.

I get a free beer for my participation. I'm introduced to another farang, who rewards me with a couple of cannabis-infused cookies. Life is good. The last half of the night sees another band on stage, Tuk (pronounced took) is a guitarist I've seen before. He's brought his band, which includes my favorite Thai drummer, who I've jammed with before, and they just take over, and everybody's happy about that. Tuk doesn't know me, but David is asked to come up and play, and it sounds great. Real jammy, but no noodling: Everything seems in place, arranged, even with long solos and exchanges.

When I leave, I've had a good time. I''ve played with some old and new friends, gotten to lead quite a few songs, and heard some good music, all for the price of, well, they bought me a beer! Tuk tells me, "Next time", and the owner asks me to please come back next week. Which, of course, I will.


Friday I return to Butter Is Better, Chiang Mai's amazing Jewish deli. I'm joined by my friends Harry and Ollie, and later David and drummer Oo, from Tuk's band and previous jams join us. The conversation is great - these are interesting, worldly, smart people. And we all share a good sense of humor, so there are a lot of laughs. I go for the pastrami and eggs, because, to be honest, outside of making my own, I don't know anywhere in the world to get better.

There's another jam tonight. The difference between my life in Syracuse and my life in Chiang Mai comes down to the difference in feeding styles. Eat, sleep, play. The eating involves no cooking here, which is very different than at home. But the quality of the food is so high, and the cost so low, that it doesn't make sense to cook. A room with a kitchen would cost more than all the restaurant-prepared food I'd eat, and then I would have to wash dishes. No go.

For the Friday night jam, which takes place at the Hopf Café where we had our little jam on Tuesday, I'll split house bass duties with David, because, well, gruff old Dave is actually a softie and generous with me. I hope he doesn't read that.

The jam is excellent. There are some challenges, like when I'm asked to back up a singer/guitarist songwriter doing original songs with very, uh, distinctive rhythm patterns. But I seriously enjoy that sort of thing, and don't think my participation makes anything worse.


The jam provided a double-treat when Willie showed up and played a nice short set with Dave. Later, we talked a little bit and discussed some songs we might do together, if the opportunity presents itself. Then there were a couple of old friends John and Phil, who are extraordinary vocalists. I hadn't heard John sing since last year. He is so very good, and has excellent timing, range and pitch, and good taste in songs.

I first met John around the corner from the Lost Hut, at Marlboro House. MH is a backpacker hangout, and where I scored my first Thai pot (which wasn't all that good). But the jukebox is next-level. David introduced us. We chatted a bit, then, when Steely Dan's song Kid Charlemagne started up, John stood up and sang along.


It was perfect. Every note hit, every phrase turned. And that is a difficult song to sing. I was very, very impressed.

Most of John's set, David was on bass, which gave me a chance to appreciate everybody playing. I'm telling you, it was good. I got a chance to get back up. My friend from Why Not? (I'll refer to him as 'Cookie Monster' I think) was there with some more. Par-tay!



That's a wrap on the first (of three) weeks in Chiang Mai. I have settled in, easily. I've seen most of my friends in town now (some aren't, temporarily or permanently). I've played five out of the last seven nights. I've had a bunch of really good meals. I've taken few photos (which I really hadn't given any thought to until I started this blog post. Next post, I'll have more. But it may not be very new, if you were following along last year, or the year before.


I'm just grateful to be able to live my life - with an appreciation for the random nature of that privilege.


Food Comment

No, I have no food pics for you. I didn't eat anything that I haven't already taken a photo of in the past. At least not anything worth photographing. That may well change.

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Wednesday, January 8, 2020

#2411: Wednesday, January 8:Chiang Mai without too many photos


Post 2411
- 9 years and 8 days since I started this blog -
  
Journal
(written Jan 5-8, 2020)
Read this once (it won't change for the rest of the trip(s): I'll be linking this post to Facebook. If that's how you got here, here's some background: About 9 years ago I started this blog as a food journal. I had a medical situation and needed to lose weight. Initially, that's all I did here: Journal my food intake and my weight. It contributed to helping me lose 20+% of my body weight in 6 months, and continuing has kept me on track since then. I started adding commentary after a while, but lately it has become infrequent. 
While I'm traveling, I let go of the weight-tracking and food journaling, except for the occasional food shot when I've eaten something interesting. And that's where we find ourselves now.
I warn you now: This post will have few photos. Here's why: As this is my third time in Thailand, I'm doing a lot of stuff I wrote about the last two times. I have favorites now. I am still interested in expanding my experience, but I've also grown fond of a few places, particularly restaurants and clubs. I've also tapped into a scene mainly, but not entirely, populated by expats, so there's going where they are.

Instead, if you'll indulge me, I'll just write about a few things that are current.

I arrived on Saturday morning. The first time I got to play was Sunday night. This trip I've brought a bass with me, due to problems with the basses available to me on previous trips (they tend to be heavy and cheap, and occasionally missing strings). The Steinberger XL2 TT made its Thai debut at the Pub CNX, which is ironic, because the house bass there is a MusicMan Stingray, and is the best bass I've ever played in my foreign travels.

A few of my old friends come out. I know the Thai musicians in the house band, and my bass-playing best friend David got the call just that afternoon to fill in as house bass.

After the first song, he asked if he could play the Steinberger. Of course I let him - I had already encouraged him - and I have to say, I've never seen him look so happy playing.

I got my chance and backed up some guys, got to play with Thai guitarist, Chart, perhaps my closest Thai friend, and got to lead a few tunes. It's open air, on a clear, room-temperature night. It's perfectly pleasing.

Next night, I make this trip's debut performance at Boy Blues Club. This is where my musical experience in Chiang Mai started, two years ago. 'Boy' is a common Thai nickname, and doesn't mean what you think it does, by the way.

Boy gives me a big greeting and gets me on stage right away. Playing with the house band (led by Boy) usually means playing with the best musicians of the evening, so that was great for me.

But, let's rewind a second, to my cab trip to the club: It was uneventful and not memorable until I realized, after walking from the drop-off point, that somehow my phone was still in the cab.

That was exciting. I wasn't particularly worried about using the phone, because I had used an app to call the cab, I knew where it was, and who had it. I decided not to contemplate the odious complications of not having the phone for a day or two until I could recover it. I had created this particular adventure all by myself.


I'm at Boy Blues Club on a Monday. I'm going to play some bass. I'm going to see old friends I haven't seen since last winter. 


And that is exactly what ensues. I'm happily playing with old friends, making some good blues behind Boy.

In the middle of the second song, the cab driver who took me to Boy's walks up to the stage holding my phone (and his) over his head, big smile on his face. Possibly not as big as mine when I see him.

I remain the luckiest person I've ever known.

As the evening goes on, winds down, and the regulars are replaced by tourists, the music is less interesting. When a particularly soul-less version of Dock of the Bay starts up, I flee.

At lunch the next day, David suggests we can have a private jam that night. He has his guitar and bass amps at a coffee shop where he hosts an open mic, and there's nothing going on there. He and Harry (who we're also at lunch with) can play guitars, he can call a vocalist and a good drummer. To me, it's an irresistible opportunity to get a lot of playing time in with really good musicians.

It doesn't disappoint.

ME, Phil (vocals), David (guitar) and Harry (guitar). Not in the pic is Yves, the only member of the party I didn't know beforehand. Turns out, he's a really solid, good drummer, and that makes for an easy night for everybody.
I get to play one while the main vocalist, Phil, has a last cigarette. But when he takes his place at the mic, it really starts. We're at the back of the Hopf Café, a small, narrow place. Small, but they have Jameson's at the bar (I'm the luckiest guy I know), We're set up, in tune. Phil calls for 'Georgia On My Mind'. The intro is a little sloppy, but comes together behind the vocals, and just like that, I have goosebumps. It sounds really, really good. Phil is killing the vocal, and everybody is locked behind him. 

And then, on a nothing-doing Tuesday night, people start filtering in, and heading towards the back, where we're playing.

After a few more songs, I look out, and there are people three-deep outside the café.

Gotta love Chiang Mai.

Next morning, I take a walk over to the Tikky Café, one of my favorite places in Chiang Mai. I didn't get to eat there as much as I wanted to last time, because it had gotten so popular that there was always a long wait. This year, I'd decided to go early and more often.

I'm not as close as I was last time - the walk is about twelve minutes instead of five, but it's the first time I've been back to that neighborhood and it's fun. Only...


Tikky Café is gone. My happy mood dissipates for a moment, and then it occurs to me to look on Google Maps. Sure enough, the café has relocated. I call a cab.

The new location is in a neighborhood out of the old city, where I haven't been. It is a pretty long ride, about fifteen minutes, although slow-moving Thai drivers make it difficult for me to judge the distance.


But once there, I see that, for the most part, they've managed to keep most of the ambiance of the old place, and have about 50% more room.



Various members of the staff greet me with smiles. We're old friends, after all. The owner comes up and takes my hands in hers, smiling. I'm shown a table near the koi pond with no wait. 

Pretty as a picture. No, I'm talking about the mixed-fruit smoothie here at Tikky Café.
The great food, service and presentation (here, I have had the most beautiful salad I've ever eaten) are the same.



It feels like home. Again. My gratitude is limitless.


Food Comment
At the Fern Forest Café (where the selfie at the top was taken) for the first time after dark, and the setting is still lovely, and the food is very good. This is curried vegetables with pork and a fried egg. It was delicious.
The new Tikky Café still serves food that not only tastes good, but is gorgeous. This is the house special vegetables Penang (curried) with pork. Also pictured is the mixed fruit smoothie in the pic above. Not shown are a couple of americanos and a plain omelet with steamed brown rice. One of the reasons I love Tikky Café is that we both 'agree' on the definition of heat. The heat content of food is on a 4-point scale, with 4 being Thai hot and 1 being mild. Both Tikky and I agree on the definition of 2 and 3, and that is a wonderful thing. 


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Saturday, January 4, 2020

#2410: Happy New Year and Greetings from Chiang Mai


Post 2410
- 8 years and 354 days since I started this blog -
  
Journal
(written Dec 20-21, 2019)
Read this once (it won't change for the rest of the trip(s): I'll be linking this post to Facebook. If that's how you got here, here's some background: About 9 years ago I started this blog as a food journal. I had a medical situation and needed to lose weight. Initially, that's all I did here: Journal my food intake and my weight. It contributed to helping me lose 20+% of my body weight in 6 months, and continuing has kept me on track since then. I started adding commentary after a while, but lately it has become infrequent. 
While I'm traveling, I let go of the weight-tracking and food journaling, except for the occasional food shot when I've eaten something interesting. And that's where we find ourselves now.
My two weeks in LA went by at light speed - they're a blur. I spent a lot of time just hanging with Alex, and a lot of time eating. It was all a great time.
There was a little sadness. When I arrived, I contacted my old friend Marty - who was out of town visiting family in Arizona. We said we'd try to get together New Year's day or the day after. He died in his sleep December 30. I'm glad we had a chance to wish each other a happy new year, even though he didn't see it. This is a pic from last year.

My other childhood friend in LA, Bobby, died earlier in the year. I'm in the time of life where you don't read obituaries out of fear of reading your own.

As I said, a blur... There aren't that many pictures, because a lot of what I did was not 'remarkable' in the sense that it was just 'hanging out'. Nonetheless, because the hanging out was with Alex, it was the best way to spend my time in LA.

One attempt to do the normal things I enjoy in LA failed - for some reason, the permanent collection in the main building at LACMA was closed when we attempted to visit. It cost us $16 in parking fees to find that out. So it goes. We'll try again when I'm back in LA at the end of the month. I did get a good picture of Alex and me there (it's the one above).

My other attempt at culture was much more successful. I love the Norton Simon Museum in Pasadena. It is my go-to place when I visit LA.
The sculpture garden at the Norton Simon has fabulous settings for modern sculpture, very heavy on Henry Moore. The garden itself looks like a Manet painting of Aix-en-Provence. It is my happy place.

The sculpture garden at the Norton Simon.
The sculpture garden at the Norton Simon.
As if the sculptures in the garden aren't enough, the museum has the world's largest collection of Edgar Degas sculptures and paintings.

Degas
Degas


There is a lot more. There is every kind of painting - modern art and classics. I believe they have famous examples of nearly every famous artist - from Rembrandt to Warhol. To me, the collection is more comprehensive and better-mounted than the more famous Getty Museum, which seems to me to me more interesting for its architecture and scenic view than the immense collection it houses, to the point where the Getty is no longer a must-visit for me.

Inside the museum, paintings and sculptures are so well-displayed. As huge and dense as the collection is, there is never a sense of crowding.

The Norton Simon also houses an enormous collection of Asian art, including a meditation garden where I usually, well, meditate. 
This time around, that garden was closed, due to recent rainfall making the grounds muddy, but it is viewable from inside. Unfortunately, there were other people with the same idea occupying the available seating, so no meditating that day.


I have spent hours browsing in this Asian collection on multiple occasions, and don't feel I've spent enough time there.
I just love sculpture. The ancient sculptures of Southeast Asia and India, so well-represented at the Norton Simon, hold a fascination for me that is incomparable. This museum and LACMA (LA County Museum of Art) are the two places that I love for their Asian art collections. 
In the past, I've taken selfies here. This time, I enlisted a fellow museum-goer to take my picture and show more of the sculpture, and me.


This gorgeous bronze is only six inches 'tall'. Amazing, exquisite detail. There are literally hundreds, if not thousands of sculptures like this on display. More than I can take in in one visit.


There are also amazing sculptures on display at the building's entrance, set beautifully, which includes Renoirs, and yes, a 'Thinker'.


This is my idea of an afternoon well-spent.

For New Year's Eve, Alex and I joined a half-dozen of his friends for a big dinner, and there was a lot of merriment. Alex didn't think I'd be comfortable at the parties he had been invited to, so after dinner was low-key.

With my time in LA winding down, Alex and I returned to Grub, his favorite breakfast place, for the first meal of 2020.
One day after New Year's Day, we had until 8:00pm before I had to return my car and catch my flight to Chiang Mai, Thailand. I'm happy to say we spent a relaxing afternoon before enjoying a wonderful dinner together at a ramen restaurant where, as is typical in LA, we had a meal that couldn't be beat.

After dinner, I set out to return my rental car and shuttle to the International terminal. I was pleased that everything about that went smoothly. LAX is a nightmare airport, with its very own intense traffic jams, and I was worried about not getting to the gate in time, but I needn't have. Despite the fact that once again, the gate was the furthest from the International terminal's entrance, after the long, long walk, I had plenty of time.

Or so I thought, not until, a half hour before boarding, they changed gates. The new gate, was at the extreme other side of the terminal; I was not prepared to make that long, long run and still, probably, be late to board. But the airline came to my rescue, and ordered up one of the golf carts they use to help the aged and infirm get around the airport. As a result, I was chauffeured to the new gate, just as boarding started.

EVA Air, like Delta on the way to LA, had no problem letting me board with my bass, and found easy stowing for it. I have to say, nothing in my past dealings with any airline prepared me for how well I was treated in this respect.

This year, my connection was in Taipei, Taiwan. In the past, it had been in Guangdon, China and Seoul, Korea (different airlines each time). That flight takes one over fifteen time zones and crosses the International Date Line. Embarrassingly, I  had told friends in Thailand to expect my Friday night, and had to re-message that I would actually arrive Saturday morning.

This was the first of a couple of obstacles between LA and Chiang Mai.

My flight stood on the LAX tarmac for an hour before taking off. Shortly after we did, my cannabis edibles kicked in, and for the first six hours nothing bothered me at all.

It was only after I came down and checked the flight map that I realized the plane would not make up the time, and would arrive exactly when my connecting flight started boarding. Sensing, rather than knowing, that that plane would be on the other side of the airport, I alerted a flight attendant to the situation.

She told me she would do what she could to help. Forty-five minutes before landing, I was moved to first-class, and all my carry-ons were put in a front locker, so I would be first off the plane.

When I disembarked, I was met by a young Taiwanese airline employee, who took my bass, and ran through the airport (with me frequently imploring him to slow down. As he ran, he was constantly on a walkie-talkie, presumably with my gate.

I was right about the connecting flight's location in the airport, at the far end of the terminal from where I got off. I reached it out of breathe, knees aching. But the last bus to the plane was waiting for me. I got on the bus and the doors immediately closed and the bus set off.


Crisis averted.

I got to Chiang Mai ten minutes early, forty hours after I woke up for my last day in LA. I was wiped.

After I checked in to my airBnB, it took me all of fifteen minutes to fall asleep. When I woke up three hours later (I don't ever sleep long - nights are usually broken up into three- and four-hour segments), I had messages on my phone from local friends, including a dinner invite from my main man in Chiang Mai, David.


I met up with David and his girlfriend, Mai, who has been my best Thai friend (even though she isn't a musician) (LOL) at the Ploen Ruedee (Saturday) Night Market, which has a big selection of food stalls and a stage with great sound and a variety of Thai bands every night.

Not this time... I've had crickets, but I can't see me eating a scorpion. Crickets? Well, I have to be in the mood.
I needed to eat light. I was accommodated by V Café, one of a few vegetarian stalls. I got Thai tempeh sausage and a side of tofu scramble. Both were delicious, for a total cost of just over $3.


The band that was playing when we arrived would have been recognizable in Syracuse - playing mainstream covers. They were good, but the attractive singer suffered from growing up with microtonal scales, a very common problem with Thai singers doing Western material. We would call her 'pitchy', but she's really jus singing the songs in the way she was brought up. Still, it noticeably marred the performance.

The next band up was a big reggae ensemble: two guitars, drummer, bass, keys, trombone, trumpet. Most of the leads were by the rhythm guitar player, and he was dead-on in his Bob Marley imitation vocals, down to the accent. They were astonishingly good.

Even David, who doesn't really like reggae, had nothing but praise. I think this might be the first, if not the actual best, live reggae he'd ever heard. Mai and I danced. After, we went up and congratulated each band member on their performance. The bass player recognized me from my last visit. David asked, and we found out the oldest member of the band is 24 years old. As are the socks I was wearing.

Then we went back to David's for some recreation, and that was my first night in Thailand.

My first breakfast in Thailand was at my old favorite, Goodsouls. I walked through the door, and the manager, who I first met at old favorite Tikky Café, immediately greeted me with a 'Happy New Year,' and a fond welcome back.


I'm so grateful to be able to have these wonderful experiences.



Food Comment

The return of the Thai Cobb salad, from Fred 62. This is a better photo than the last.

Another hit from Fred 62: My 'traditional' New Year's Eve breakfast, a LEO (lox, eggs, and onions).


From Goodsouls Kitchen: scrambled tofu with all kinds of salad mixed in (top above), and a raw brownie (still my favorite dessert).

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Friday, December 27, 2019

#2409: Friday, December 27: Greetings from LA


Post 2409
- 8 years and 361 days since I started this blog -
Aboard Delta Flight 331. Took off late, landed early. So it begins.  
Journal
(written Dec 20-21, 2019)
Read this once (it won't change for the rest of the trip(s): I'll be linking this post to Facebook. If that's how you got here, here's some background: About 9 years ago I started this blog as a food journal. I had a medical situation and needed to lose weight. Initially, that's all I did here: Journal my food intake and my weight. It contributed to helping me lose 20+% of my body weight in 6 months, and continuing has kept me on track since then. I started adding commentary after a while, but lately it has become infrequent. 
While I'm traveling, I let go of the weight-tracking and food journaling, except for the occasional food shot when I've eaten something interesting. And that's where we find ourselves now.
Thursday, December 19:  After my all-time quickest passage from Hancock in Syracuse to LAX in LA, I got to my airBnB a little after midnight. The one of my hosts who was home met me at the door, handed me the key, showed me to my room and said good night. Even though it's late for him, I'm still on NY time and it's after 3am for me, typical bed time, so that's fine. because I'm really tired from walking through airports (times three). The room is very nice and comfortable and clean and well-appointed. Since I'll be spending a total of 3 weeks in it, that's a very good thing.

My AirBnB room. Mr. Zimmerman observes from fifty-plus years ago.
It is too late to connect with Alex, who texted his good night after he heard that I'd landed safely. 

It's Friday, and I'm exhausted. And sore, from however many miles I walked through airport terminals yesterday in Syracuse, Detroit and Los Angeles, with a heavy backpack and my Steinberger bass in hand. I wonder today if I am getting too old for this. 


Nah!

Alex has temporary digs these days, he's moving to a new place in January. Meanwhile, this week he's house-sitting for his boss, taking care of Emily, the mellow wonder-dog. The house is in Hollywood, and it is very nice and comfortable.

After a delicious meal (we eat and eat and eat in LA. Everything is planned and discussed over food), we visit his more permanent temporary house, a big beautiful mansion in Calabasas.

Out of respect for their privacy, no pics of the house exterior or interior, but this is Alex, in the back yard. As pretty as it is, you need to walk to the end of the property for the view of the canyon to see how beautiful it really is.`
Here's a 180º view of the above.
The other thing LA is paradise for is getting stoned. Now completely legal, we make a stop at the Weed, Alex's dispensary of choice. First things first, right? Going forward, you may assume I'm writing stoned, because I am.

In Smörgasburg, you are spoiled for choice. You could faint just from the heavenly aromas, booth to booth. 

Alex, with dumplings.
Walking out of Smörgasburg, I encountered Poison Ivy's (Batman reference) apartment building.
The contrasts of LA: Beautiful weather, lots of homeless people lining the streets downtown. This is another reason Alex doesn't go to Little Damage very often - you have to weave your way through homeless people on sidewalks that are used by them as their residence... It's heartbreaking. And it does detract from your enjoyment of this fru-fru dessert. But not enough to make that creamy deliciousness less irresistible.
Then, in case there was a single cell in me that was not completely full, we head through skid row to Little Damage, Alex's favorite ice cream in LA. He is never downtown, so only gets to go on special occasions.
Incredible ice cream at Little Damage (dark chocolate-peanut butter-banana, here). Throughout the week, LA's artisanal ice cream parlors are providing dessert, even after dessert. Don't judge me. It's a thing I do in LA.
That night, I make my acting debut in a short film about Hanukkah (the holiday is just beginning. I play an old sleepy Jewish grandfather (it's Hannukah, and about a Jewish family). I have three lines: "What?", "Who died?", and "Moses did what?". When it's edited and published, I'll put in a link. Meanwhile, trust me, I killed it! LOL. Probably not. My big debut will probably end up on the proverbial cutting room floor.

But it was fun!


In a sad coincidence, most of my LA friends are not in town this week. So it goes. I make what plans I can.

One of which is meeting the parents of Alex's friend Alex. You might recognize him as the other Alex in 'Kellerman Hates Fruit' or 'Lewis Hates Liquor'. Everybody in LA is named Alex, so they all call each other by their last name. If you hear somebody being addressed in a friendly way by their last name, their first name is Alex. Got it? It seemed a little weird to me, since this is the only place I've encountered this behavior, but now I'm used to it.

Alex's parents are incredibly nice. We have a pleasant dinner, good conversation, and then back to the manse for Hanukkah candle lighting and gift-giving.


Christmas Eve and the pot shops have sales. Alex and I want to pick up some edibles for the next day, when we're going to see 'Cats' because we think the movie will be strange and twisted. On the way to meeting Alex at the dispensary (where I will buy more pot than I can smoke in my remaining time in California, I look to my right on Santa Monica Boulevard, and see Sharon Stone driving a black Porsche Carrera. 

I don't know if it's really her, but when I first look, I don''t think, "That looks like Sharon Stone." I think, Sharon Stone is driving the car next to me. 

She escorts me to the pot shop, then drives away as if we haven't established a lasting relationship, but I think she likes me.

Christmas day Alex and I split a cannabis chocolate bar and go see 'Cats'.

I liked it a lot. As far as I can tell, I'm the only person in California who's had that reaction. Alex and all his friends are very critical. Alex doesn't seem to have liked anything about it. I can't account for this disparity. Or maybe it's the pot.

Yesterday, I got to play a little bass with the movie-scoring father of the film-maker who is having a story conference with Alex in the next room. A little 'Watermelon Man' jazz-and-bass thing. It swings. He's really good, and plays many instruments, including bass. I'm on his beautiful forty-five-year-old blonde Rickenbacker 4001 (the Sir Paul bass). Things are good.

From there, Alex and I go to Pasadena to meet my one friend who is accessible this week. On the way, I encounter a first for me: Snow in Southern California.

Snow on the mountains. I haven't mentioned it until this point, but it is cold - well, cool - in LA. I haven't been taking so many pictures because it has been mostly overcast, even rainy, the last few days. I have been caught out and gotten rained on more than once. I took this pic on the way to my friend's in Pasadena. It's unusual. I've never seen snow out here. Temps have been in the fifties, and I have no appropriate clothes (e.g.. a jacket or hoodie) with me and that's been a little inhibiting in terms of my activities. Almost as much as my jet lag. But I digress. 
My visit to Pasadena is great. I met my friend nineteen years ago, in Atlanta, and he had just started seriously dating the woman he married. Now they've moved to California, have a beautiful house and kids, and, after all this time, I finally meet her. She's pleasant, he's manic with the intensity of his career - he's a very high-powered database consultant, and he's working on cryptocurrencies. He's every bit as gregarious, but much more hyper and intense than I've known him. He's excited by all the action - a lot of government agency intrigue, too.


Alex met him about seven years ago. The three of us have a nice Irish pub dinner, and there's an open mic happening that I don't get involved with. Everybody is a 20-something singer-songwriter-guitarist. Everybody. I am none of these things.

It's Friday afternoon as I'm writing this. I've been doing some end-of-year work on my computer, Alex is writing - my visit has had a negative impact on time for that, and I completely understand that he needs to set aside some time for normal activities. So I've been on my own.

I've lounged around in bed, sleeping in, waiting for the market to close on the last Friday of 2019 (which happens at 1pm Pacific time). I have a little record-keeping to do, my investment spreadsheet to update, then, at around two, I walk a couple of blocks to Hugo's Restaurant for breakfast. It's always good, and this is the first time I've ever stayed within walking distance.

Tonight I'll see 'Dear Jerry' starring Alex's friend and film-making partner Alex Lewis. He, of Lewburger, 'Bring on the Funny' fame. I've already seen him a couple of times this week, but haven't seen the play.

Things are good. I'm having a great time. More to come. I couldn't be more grateful.


Food Comment

Breakfast at Grub: Famous for 'Crack Bacon' (their menu nomenclature, not mine. Don't do drugs). We also have some fruit, a Mediterranean scramble with fried potatoes and rye toast.
At Smörgasburg: Pastrami on artisanal sourdough bread with 'homemade' mustard. Incredible!
At Smörgasburg: Dumplings. Chicken, beef, pork with vegetables fillings. Even better than they look.
At Smörgasburg: lobster roll on fries. The lobster was as good as any I've had, and the fries weren't bad, either. A big hit! (Have I mentioned, all these foods are shared. Even I have my limits, and my eyes are bigger than my whole GI tract).
At Smörgasburg: BBQ pork belly and cole slaw. With red and green barbecue sauce. That's it - over and out. Not shown (along the way, before this, which was my last dish of the day at Smörgasburg): A 'designer' donut, and a michelada. 
At Fred'62 (no, I don't know why this restaurant is named that): Thai Cobb salad (that's a pun, son) - a cobb salad with a Thai twist that was absolutely amazing. My favorite new dish of the trip).
At Hugo's Restaurant: Papa's Pasta: Spaghetti with eggs, sausage, spinach, bacon, and other stuff too numerous to mention. Breakfast of champions. (I say that a lot).

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