Sunday, January 7, 2018

#2004, Sunday January 7: A walk in the Old City


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This is the day I feel things beginning to come together for me.

It began with some computer sleuthing, and I finally figured out why Uber had failed me the night before. It turns out, with my new phone, I couldn't register a US credit card for payment in Thailand (from there). They are trying to protect me from fraud. Solution: Pay cash. End of story, end of problem (I have plenty of Thai money - a US dollar is about thirty-two Bhat right now).

My internal clock still hasn't completely adjusted to the time difference here. I'm up at four in the morning, which is actually my typical bed time. There's an obvious logic to that. It's kind of okay, so far, because there's lots of things to do when there aren't any distractions: Meditate, edit photos, write these journal entries, Facebook, and calls to the States.

Today after doing everything I mentioned above in the morning, I set out around 11 o'clock for an Old City walk. I started at the River Market Restaurant. That was the location of my CEC (Chiang Mai Expats Club) breakfast, but it is also a beautiful location on the first really beautiful day (not overcast) in Chiang Mai. It is also the location of the Red Chili Cooking School, and has a well-regarded khao soi, a Northern Thai curry dish that apparently interests some people enough that they spend their time in Chiang Mai on a quest to find the best. At the moment, I'm more interested in variety. But I had never had the dish, so...

The food and service did not disappoint. The setting is beautiful, open-air, on the banks of the Ping River. The dish, a thick curry with chicken, coconut milk, curry broth, two kinds of noodles, one flat, a la pad thai, one crispy fried (like the Chinese crisp noodles, but fresh and better), and carefully spiced, is a good example of the Thai cooking philosophy of balancing the five tastes, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. During the meal, I got a video call from a far-traveling friend who was in LA. It was great catching up (we'd been playing phone tag while he was abroad) and we're going to try 
This is the day I feel things beginning to come together for me.

It began with some computer sleuthing, and I finally figured out why Uber had failed me the night before. It turns out, with my new phone, I couldn't register a US credit card for payment in Thailand (from there). They are trying to protect me from fraud. Solution: Pay cash. End of story, end of problem (I have plenty of Thai money - a US dollar is about thirty-two Bhat right now).

My internal clock still hasn't completely adjusted to the time difference here. I'm up at four in the morning, which is actually my typical bed time. There's an obvious logic to that. It's kind of okay, so far, because there's lots of things to do when there aren't any distractions: Meditate, edit photos, write these journal entries, Facebook, and calls to the States.

Today after doing everything I mentioned above in the morning, I set out around 11 o'clock for an Old City walk. I started at the River Market Restaurant. That was the location of my CEC (Chiang Mai Expats Club) breakfast, but it is also a beautiful location on the first really beautiful day (not overcast) in Chiang Mai. It is also the location of the Red Chili Cooking School, and has a well-regarded khao soi, a dish that apparently some people spend their Chiang Mai time finding the best sample of.

The food and service did not disappoint. The setting is beautiful, open-air, on the banks of the Ping River. The dish, a soup with chicken, coconut milk, broth, two kinds of noodles, one flat, a la pad thai, one crispy fried (like the Chinese crisp noodles, but better), and carefully spiced, is a good example of the Thai cooking philosophy of balancing the five tastes, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I also enjoyed getting a video call from a far-traveling friend - we're going to try and sync up in Florida when I get down there in February.

After, I set out on a stroll with the intent of some holistic sightseeing (which I define as having no goal or direction, just trying to enjoy what presents itself). It's hot here, and after I saw some wats (temples) I followed a street hawker into a busy parlor for a Thai massage. I won't go into details, this was not the happy-ending-oriented Bangkok-style, its goal was to relax your muscles and ease your mind, and it worked, and I will not go another day in Thailand without getting one. With a nice tip, the massage cost me about seven bucks. My meal and a beer at River Market cost more.

Feeling refreshed, I covered some ground I had previously gone over, making a stop at the Reggae Cafe (Sunday, closed) but getting a closer look. My kind of dive bar.

Remember when I was looking to buy a (working) phone and I found the highest-recommended place closed? Turns out, that wasn't the place. Today I found it, anything but closed. In fact, it was really interesting, being a shopping mall that specialized in all tech stuff - phones, computers, gaming gear - and also education. There were several schools teaching Thai to the farang (me).

My Thai service provider had a booth there, and I took advantage to reload my prepay plan.

When I next encountered the Hard Rock Cafe Chiang Mai, I stopped in for a Jameson's, neat, and some air conditioning. I got to see bras worn by Madonna and Lady Gaga, and hightops worn by Justin Timberlake. The bartender was cooler than cool, the concierge (they have a concierge), after inquiring where I was from and what instrument I played (making an assumption that, for once, was correct), took my card for his collection of visiting musicians (I didn't have the heart to tell him my lack of celebrity).

The Sunday Night Market was just beginning, being set up. It's just a gigantic flea market, with lots of exotic stuff. I saw a massage parlor that offered the fish tanks where you can get the dead skin nibbled off your feet by the hungry little fishies. I pass on that, no matter that my son seems to think there's something really cool about this. I began to wish I was hungry, because, like everywhere in Thailand, but even more concentrated, the food offerings were everywhere, and of every nationality. I saw Lebanese, Irish, British, Indian, Northern Thai, Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Halal, Israeli, and some I couldn't identify because their signage was in Thai - but the pictures did not look like Thai food to me. And I'm probably leaving out some.

There was art, clothes, luggage, electronics, toys, crafts, art (well, religious pictures on black velvet (a la Elvis). About the only thing I didn't see was a picture of dogs playing poker. I did see a few places that sold framed insects (and bats). This was creepy and weird enough for me to appeal to the childish side of me.

I felt like I'd accomplished almost everything I wanted to, and headed home - it was still relatively early, around 8pm. Got my Uber, no problem, and, hit the sheets early. Tomorrow is another day, another adventure, and I'm full of gratitude for every minute.This is the day I feel things beginning to come together for me.

It began with some computer sleuthing, and I finally figured out why Uber had failed me the night before. It turns out, with my new phone, I couldn't register a US credit card for payment in Thailand (from there). They are trying to protect me from fraud. Solution: Pay cash. End of story, end of problem (I have plenty of Thai money - a US dollar is about thirty-two Bhat right now).

My internal clock still hasn't completely adjusted to the time difference here. I'm up at four in the morning, which is actually my typical bed time. There's an obvious logic to that. It's kind of okay, so far, because there's lots of things to do when there aren't any distractions: Meditate, edit photos, write these journal entries, Facebook, and calls to the States.

Today after doing everything I mentioned above in the morning, I set out around 11 o'clock for an Old City walk. I started at the River Market Restaurant. That was the location of my CEC (Chiang Mai Expats Club) breakfast, but it is also a beautiful location on the first really beautiful day (not overcast) in Chiang Mai. It is also the location of the Red Chili Cooking School, and has a well-regarded khao soi, a dish that apparently some people spend their Chiang Mai time finding the best sample of.

The food and service did not disappoint. The setting is beautiful, open-air, on the banks of the Ping River. The dish, a soup with chicken, coconut milk, broth, two kinds of noodles, one flat, a la pad thai, one crispy fried (like the Chinese crisp noodles, but better), and carefully spiced, is a good example of the Thai cooking philosophy of balancing the five tastes, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I also enjoyed getting a video call from a far-traveling friend - we're going to try and sync up in Florida when I get down there in February.

After, I set out on a stroll with the intent of some holistic sightseeing (which I define as having no goal or direction, just trying to enjoy what presents itself). It's hot here, and after I saw some wats (temples) I followed a street hawker into a busy parlor for a Thai massage. I won't go into details, this was not the happy-ending-oriented Bangkok-style, its goal was to relax your muscles and ease your mind, and it worked, and I will not go another day in Thailand without getting one. With a nice tip, the massage cost me about seven bucks. My meal and a beer at River Market cost more.

Feeling refreshed, I covered some ground I had previously gone over, making a stop at the Reggae Cafe (Sunday, closed) but getting a closer look. My kind of dive bar.

Remember when I was looking to buy a (working) phone and I found the highest-recommended place closed? Turns out, that wasn't the place. Today I found it, anything but closed. In fact, it was really interesting, being a shopping mall that specialized in all tech stuff - phones, computers, gaming gear - and also education. There were several schools teaching Thai to the farang (me).

My Thai service provider had a booth there, and I took advantage to reload my prepay plan.

When I next encountered the Hard Rock Cafe Chiang Mai, I stopped in for a Jameson's, neat, and some air conditioning. I got to see bras worn by Madonna and Lady Gaga, and hightops worn by Justin Timberlake. The bartender was cooler than cool, the concierge (they have a concierge), after inquiring where I was from and what instrument I played (making an assumption that, for once, was correct), took my card for his collection of visiting musicians (I didn't have the heart to tell him my lack of celebrity).

The Sunday Night Market was just beginning, being set up. It's just a gigantic flea market, with lots of exotic stuff. I saw a massage parlor that offered the fish tanks where you can get the dead skin nibbled off your feet by the hungry little fishies. I pass on that, no matter that my son seems to think there's something really cool about this. I began to wish I was hungry, because, like everywhere in Thailand, but even more concentrated, the food offerings were everywhere, and of every nationality. I saw Lebanese, Irish, British, Indian, Northern Thai, Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Halal, Israeli, and some I couldn't identify because their signage was in Thai - but the pictures did not look like Thai food to me. And I'm probably leaving out some.

There was art, clothes, luggage, electronics, toys, crafts, art (well, religious pictures on black velvet (a la Elvis). About the only thing I didn't see was a picture of dogs playing poker. I did see a few places that sold framed insects (and bats). This was creepy and weird enough for me to appeal to the childish side of me.

I felt like I'd accomplished almost everything I wanted to, and headed home - it was still relatively early, around 8pm. Got my Uber, no problem, and, hit the sheets early. Tomorrow is another day, another adventure, and I'm full of gratitude for every minute.This is the day I feel things beginning to come together for me.

It began with some computer sleuthing, and I finally figured out why Uber had failed me the night before. It turns out, with my new phone, I couldn't register a US credit card for payment in Thailand (from there). They are trying to protect me from fraud. Solution: Pay cash. End of story, end of problem (I have plenty of Thai money - a US dollar is about thirty-two Bhat right now).

My internal clock still hasn't completely adjusted to the time difference here. I'm up at four in the morning, which is actually my typical bed time. There's an obvious logic to that. It's kind of okay, so far, because there's lots of things to do when there aren't any distractions: Meditate, edit photos, write these journal entries, Facebook, and calls to the States.

Today after doing everything I mentioned above in the morning, I set out around 11 o'clock for an Old City walk. I started at the River Market Restaurant. That was the location of my CEC (Chiang Mai Expats Club) breakfast, but it is also a beautiful location on the first really beautiful day (not overcast) in Chiang Mai. It is also the location of the Red Chili Cooking School, and has a well-regarded khao soi, a dish that apparently some people spend their Chiang Mai time finding the best sample of.

The food and service did not disappoint. The setting is beautiful, open-air, on the banks of the Ping River. The dish, a soup with chicken, coconut milk, broth, two kinds of noodles, one flat, a la pad thai, one crispy fried (like the Chinese crisp noodles, but better), and carefully spiced, is a good example of the Thai cooking philosophy of balancing the five tastes, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I also enjoyed getting a video call from a far-traveling friend - we're going to try and sync up in Florida when I get down there in February.

After, I set out on a stroll with the intent of some holistic sightseeing (which I define as having no goal or direction, just trying to enjoy what presents itself). It's hot here, and after I saw some wats (temples) I followed a street hawker into a busy parlor for a Thai massage. I won't go into details, this was not the happy-ending-oriented Bangkok-style, its goal was to relax your muscles and ease your mind, and it worked, and I will not go another day in Thailand without getting one. With a nice tip, the massage cost me about seven bucks. My meal and a beer at River Market cost more.

Feeling refreshed, I covered some ground I had previously gone over, making a stop at the Reggae Cafe (Sunday, closed) but getting a closer look. My kind of dive bar.

Remember when I was looking to buy a (working) phone and I found the highest-recommended place closed? Turns out, that wasn't the place. Today I found it, anything but closed. In fact, it was really interesting, being a shopping mall that specialized in all tech stuff - phones, computers, gaming gear - and also education. There were several schools teaching Thai to the farang (me).

My Thai service provider had a booth there, and I took advantage to reload my prepay plan.

When I next encountered the Hard Rock Cafe Chiang Mai, I stopped in for a Jameson's, neat, and some air conditioning. I got to see bras worn by Madonna and Lady Gaga, and hightops worn by Justin Timberlake. The bartender was cooler than cool, the concierge (they have a concierge), after inquiring where I was from and what instrument I played (making an assumption that, for once, was correct), took my card for his collection of visiting musicians (I didn't have the heart to tell him my lack of celebrity).

The Sunday Night Market was just beginning, being set up. It's just a gigantic flea market, with lots of exotic stuff. I saw a massage parlor that offered the fish tanks where you can get the dead skin nibbled off your feet by the hungry little fishies. I pass on that, no matter that my son seems to think there's something really cool about this. I began to wish I was hungry, because, like everywhere in Thailand, but even more concentrated, the food offerings were everywhere, and of every nationality. I saw Lebanese, Irish, British, Indian, Northern Thai, Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Halal, Israeli, and some I couldn't identify because their signage was in Thai - but the pictures did not look like Thai food to me. And I'm probably leaving out some.

There was art, clothes, luggage, electronics, toys, crafts, art (well, religious pictures on black velvet (a la Elvis). About the only thing I didn't see was a picture of dogs playing poker. I did see a few places that sold framed insects (and bats). This was creepy and weird enough for me to appeal to the childish side of me.

I felt like I'd accomplished almost everything I wanted to, and headed home - it was still relatively early, around 8pm. Got my Uber, no problem, and, hit the sheets early. Tomorrow is another day, another adventure, and I'm full of gratitude for every minute.This is the day I feel things beginning to come together for me.

It began with some computer sleuthing, and I finally figured out why Uber had failed me the night before. It turns out, with my new phone, I couldn't register a US credit card for payment in Thailand (from there). They are trying to protect me from fraud. Solution: Pay cash. End of story, end of problem (I have plenty of Thai money - a US dollar is about thirty-two Bhat right now).

My internal clock still hasn't completely adjusted to the time difference here. I'm up at four in the morning, which is actually my typical bed time. There's an obvious logic to that. It's kind of okay, so far, because there's lots of things to do when there aren't any distractions: Meditate, edit photos, write these journal entries, Facebook, and calls to the States.

Today after doing everything I mentioned above in the morning, I set out around 11 o'clock for an Old City walk. I started at the River Market Restaurant. That was the location of my CEC (Chiang Mai Expats Club) breakfast, but it is also a beautiful location on the first really beautiful day (not overcast) in Chiang Mai. It is also the location of the Red Chili Cooking School, and has a well-regarded khao soi, a dish that apparently some people spend their Chiang Mai time finding the best sample of.

The food and service did not disappoint. The setting is beautiful, open-air, on the banks of the Ping River. The dish, a soup with chicken, coconut milk, broth, two kinds of noodles, one flat, a la pad thai, one crispy fried (like the Chinese crisp noodles, but better), and carefully spiced, is a good example of the Thai cooking philosophy of balancing the five tastes, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I also enjoyed getting a video call from a far-traveling friend - we're going to try and meet up in Florida when I get down there in February.

After a refreshing Singha, I set out on a stroll with the intent of some holistic sightseeing (which I define as having no goal or direction, just trying to enjoy and be open to whatever presents itself). It's hot here, and after I saw some wats (temples) I followed a street hawker into a busy parlor for a Thai massage. I won't go into details, this was not the happy-ending-oriented Bangkok-style, its goal was to relax your muscles and ease your mind. So I was pulled, pummelled, poked and prodded for an hour, and it worked. The sweet sandalwood incence, the chatter of the masseurs and masseuses in the curtained off stations left me in a nice balance between relaxed and energized, and I will not go another day in Thailand without getting a massage. With a nice tip, the massage cost me about seven bucks. My meal and a beer at River Market cost more.

Feeling refreshed, I covered some ground I had previously gone over, making a stop at the Reggae Cafe (Sunday, closed) but getting a closer look. My kind of dive bar.

Remember when I was looking to buy a (working) phone and I found the highest-recommended place closed? Turns out, that wasn't the place. Today I found it, anything but closed. In fact, it was really interesting, being a shopping mall that specialized in all tech stuff - phones, computers, gaming gear - and also education. There were several schools teaching Thai to the farang (me).

My Thai service provider had a booth there, and I took advantage to reload my prepay plan.

When I next encountered the Hard Rock Cafe Chiang Mai, I stopped in for a Jameson's, neat, and some air conditioning. I got to see bras worn by Madonna and Lady Gaga, and hightops worn by Justin Timberlake. The bartender was cooler than cool, the concierge (they have a concierge), after inquiring where I was from and what instrument I played (making an assumption that, for once, was correct), took my card for his collection of visiting musicians (I didn't have the heart to tell him my lack of celebrity).

The Sunday Night Market was just beginning, being set up. It's just a gigantic flea market, with lots of exotic stuff. I saw a massage parlor that offered the fish tanks where you can get the dead skin nibbled off your feet by the hungry little fishies. I pass on that, no matter that my son seems to think there's something really cool about this. I began to wish I was hungry, because, like everywhere in Thailand, but even more concentrated, the food offerings were everywhere, and of every nationality. I saw Lebanese, Irish, British, Indian, Northern Thai, Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Halal, Israeli, and some I couldn't identify because their signage was in Thai - but the pictures did not look like Thai food to me. And I'm probably leaving out some.

There was art, clothes, luggage, electronics, toys, crafts, art (well, religious pictures on black velvet (a la Elvis). About the only thing I didn't see was a picture of dogs playing poker. I did see a few places that sold framed insects (and bats). This was creepy and weird enough for me to appeal to the childish side of me.

I felt like I'd accomplished almost everything I wanted to, and headed home - it was still relatively early, around 8pm. Got my Uber, no problem, and, hit the sheets early. Tomorrow is another day, another adventure, and I'm full of gratitude for every minute.and sync up in Florida when I get down there in February.

After, I set out on a stroll with the intent of some holistic sightseeing (which I define as having no goal or direction, just trying to enjoy what presents itself). It's hot here, and after I saw some wats (temples) I followed a street hawker into a busy parlor for a Thai massage. I won't go into details, this was not the happy-ending-oriented Bangkok-style, its goal was to relax your muscles and ease your mind, and it worked, and I will not go another day in Thailand without getting one. With a nice tip, the massage cost me about seven bucks. My meal and a beer at River Market cost more.

Feeling refreshed, I covered some ground I had previously gone over, making a stop at the Reggae Cafe (Sunday, closed) but getting a closer look. My kind of dive bar.

Remember when I was looking to buy a (working) phone and I found the highest-recommended place closed? Turns out, that wasn't the place. Today I found it, anything but closed. In fact, it was really interesting, being a shopping mall that specialized in all tech stuff - phones, computers, gaming gear - and also education. There were several schools teaching Thai to the farang (me).

My Thai service provider had a booth there, and I took advantage to reload my prepay plan.

When I next encountered the Hard Rock Cafe Chiang Mai, I stopped in for a Jameson's, neat, and some air conditioning. I got to see bras worn by Madonna and Lady Gaga, and hightops worn by Justin Timberlake. The bartender was cooler than cool, the concierge (they have a concierge), after inquiring where I was from and what instrument I played (making an assumption that, for once, was correct), took my card for his collection of visiting musicians (I didn't have the heart to tell him my lack of celebrity).

The Sunday Night Market was just beginning, being set up. It's just a gigantic flea market, with lots of exotic stuff. I saw a massage parlor that offered the fish tanks where you can get the dead skin nibbled off your feet by the hungry little fishies. I pass on that, no matter that my son seems to think there's something really cool about this. I began to wish I was hungry, because, like everywhere in Thailand, but even more concentrated, the food offerings were everywhere, and of every nationality. I saw Lebanese, Irish, British, Indian, Northern Thai, Mexican, Italian, German, French, Chinese, Halal, Israeli, and some I couldn't identify because their signage was in Thai - but the pictures did not look like Thai food to me. And I'm probably leaving out some.

There was art, clothes, luggage, electronics, toys, crafts, art (well, religious pictures on black velvet (a la Elvis). About the only thing I didn't see was a picture of dogs playing poker. I did see a few places that sold framed insects (and bats). This was creepy and weird enough for me to appeal to the childish side of me.

I felt like I'd accomplished almost everything I wanted to, and headed home - it was still relatively early, around 8pm. Got my Uber, no problem, and, hit the sheets early. Tomorrow is another day, another adventure, and I'm full of gratitude for every minute.


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Saturday, January 6, 2018

#2003, Saturday, January 6: Chiang Mai, Day 2


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Day 2 in Chiang Mai was a slow and lazy day. In some ways, this was the day I should have had day one.

I was tired, and I allowed that for myself. I spent a part of the morning working on issues with my new/old iPhone. I am unable to recharge my sim card, and spent quite a while figuring that out. Time for a new one - no penalty for that, but a drag to have to change phone numbers, and spend MORE time working on the phone. So it goes.

My condo is not near the Old City, where most everything is. That's good in some ways: It's quiet, where most places in the heart of things are not. I'm on the 10th floor, and get peace and quiet that is just not available 'downtown'. The wifi is great, too. It is a great retreat.

The down side of that is that it is that the Old City is where pretty much everything I'm interested in happens. Which makes me dependent on Uber (first choice), tuk-tuks (not bad, kind of fun, but less convenient, as you have to find one) or Songheuw, the red truck/covered pickups, which are by far the cheapest, but even less convenient, as you have to see one, hail one, check if the driver is going in your direction and will take you. Uber is the way, but my phone problems have really made it chancy - more on that later.

Anyway, I puttered around in the morning, had some calls with friends back home (it is 12 hours earlier for them, so my morning is their 'last night'). That was great. Then I went out for 'breakfast' and to pick up some shower gel - the tiny motel soap bar I brought with me was not cutting it. I also wanted to explore my neighborhood a bit. Unlike during the night, it was pretty dead. None of the food stands were open, and many restaurants were closed as well.

I ended up buying a giant bottle of Dove, and carried it with me, settling on a restaurant whose menu consisted of an album of photos of the dishes. I chose pork with eggs and vegetables, and it was delicious. With a bottle of water, breakfast cost about US$2.50, and was quite satisfying. I was amused by the antics of the owner's young son (I'd guess around 8 years old) during the meal. Apparently, he had achieved or completed something, and clearly wanted a reward. The interaction between him and his mother (the waitress/owner, I'm guessing) was very playful and loving.

Back at the condo, I planned on going down to get a Thai massage from the shop just outside the entrance, but when I went to do it, I just wasn't feeling it. No problems, I noticed that massage parlors are almost as ubiquitous as restaurants. I have time.

I then tried to buy more internet data for my card at the 7-11 where I had purchased it. No dice. I couldn't explain what I wanted, and I couldn't get the app for doing it to load. I may have purchased the wrong card. My phone problems have been the only constant, but my attitude is, something good comes out of something bad. I'll go to the Old City tomorrow, and have more luck. I hope. Or I'll just buy a new card instead of reloading the old one.

Fast forward a bit to dinner time. Facebook had notified my that I was very near three 'highly-rated' restaurants. When I clicked on the one that had Thai food, it didn't show an address, and the name was in Thai, so I clicked on it to see it on the map, and got walking directions. Unfortunately, it was Apple maps, and the 12 minute walk turned into about three times that. But the restaurant was very attractive, and I could see where it all went wrong. No problem.

The restaurant turned out to be a hot pot place, where you buy the ingredients, and throw them into a pot of boiling water on a hot plate at your table. You ordered by checking off items on a tablet. There was not a farang in the place - it was filled with Thai, and I didn't get the impression that anybody spoke English, but the menu was in English, so I just went for it: I ordered 'special pork' which turned out to be bacon, shrimp, chicken, vegetables, and rice, and what turned out to be a 2.5-liter bottle of water. Everybody was gracious and helpful as they could be. The cost? less than $4, including what I think/hope was overtipping.

After my previous experience, I decided to Uber the short distance back, but attempt after attempt ended with 'Something went wrong - check the app' and the app told me nothing and was no help at all. So I hoofed it back to the condo, this time it took only the 12 minutes it was supposed to.

But half-way along, I felt something I haven't felt in a very, very long time: Lonely. Don't "aw-w-w-w" me - I don't over-emote. I thought about how isolated not being able to talk with people made me feel, and why. I thought about how, even so, every interaction with the Thai, whether verbal or not, had left me feeling good: Gentleness, dignity and compassion are built into their culture. Aggression embarresses them - on behalf of the aggressor! But unable to understand or make myself understood, and the insight that I was the only single diner in the restaurant, filled me with a longing for companionship. I normally spend a great deal of time alone without ever thinking of it as problematic - there's a big difference between being alone and being lonely, and I have rarely in my life felt the latter. I like being alone, maybe more than most. But tonight I was both, alone and lonely. That was the bittersweet condition I found myself in.

I let myself feel it. I even explored the feeling of it, and then I let it go. Just like that, it was over. The takeaway? Spend more time in the Old City, look for the music in town - musicians are my brothers and sisters, they'll hip me to what's going on. And maybe I need to be a little more interested in planning activities for myself.

Am I still enjoying my time? Absolutely. It's an adventure, and the first rule is you deal with what comes. I'm pretty good at that. And grateful for every experience.


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#2002, Friday, January 5: Patience and good attitude, rewarded


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Day 1 in Chiang Mai, Thailand. Technically, I got here last night, but this is the first full day.

Not able to get internet working on my phone, I ventured forth webless to a breakfast meeting of the Chiang Mai Expats Club. I immediately went to the wrong place,. I stepped into a coffee shop and connected to Wi-Fi, figured out where the right place was, and took my first tuk-tuk ride to the inner (walled) city. Breakfast was a buffet of Thai and Euro-American food, and it was excellent, so I overate. 


I met some interesting and knowledgeable people, getting some good insight on living in Thailand from the experienced members. It was one of the newbies who gave me the diagnosis on my phone problem - Verizon phones won't work in Thailand, there are no CDMA networks. So while I can make phone calls with my Thai sim chip installed, I cannot connect to the internet. Another expat told me where to get a cheap refurb iPhone that would work, so after breakfast, I went on my first walking tour of the old city. Really, really interesting and fun. Unfortunately, the place I needed was closed.

Interacting with Thai people along the way, I could see why they call this 
(warning, cliché ahead) the land of smiles. Everybody was helpful, everybody seemed glad for the interaction, and yes, smiles everywhere. Chiang Mai is a vibrant city. My first impressions: More restaurants than I have ever seen, and if that isn't enough, street vendors everywhere. Oh, and Buddhist temples (wots) and shrines are thicker than midtown Starbucks locations.

Back at the condo, I settled in to deal with my lost bag, and got some good news: My bag was located, and being tracked, and was on its way. Call back in about 90 minutes, and again, polite, helpful service, even while struggling with the English my lack of any Thai forced on them. Still full from breakfast, I finished up some writing and googled places where I could find a refurb iPhone (all the expats generally in agreement that I didn't need the aggravation of trying to learn how to work my android phone). It turns out that Chiang Mai's oldest mall has a concentration of resellers. I wrote down the address. Then I took a nap.

I woke up and called again to get my missing bag, with excellent news: My bag would be delivered to the condo. When? Uncertain, check back, for sure.

Not wanting to miss being around to receive the bag when it came, I went out on the street and bought a skewer of grilled... something. It was good, and well-spiced, but I may never know what kind of meat it was...

Back at the condo, another call to the airport lost-and-found, this time was a little more difficult, but the word I got was that the bag was being delivered to the condo! Yes!

After an hour of waiting, I got impatient and went down to make sure they knew to look out for it... A lot of smiles, head-nodding, and then a finger pointing to my bag, sitting with some packages for other residents. What a relief.

So now it's off to the mall, where there are indeed, dozens of phone resellers. I browse, and quickly determine there's some price-fixing going on... and find a pristine-looking iPhone 5, at a not unreasonable price (less than it would cost in the US, anyway). I go to pay, and find the card I've been using refused. I know this drill, and quickly try to mollify the salesgirl who is clearly embarrassed by my misfortune, preparing to take the karmic load, and not show that she is worried about her commission. She is delighted when I present my backup card, and the transaction goes through immediately. She throws a charger and cable in the bag for good measure, and works with me for the next half hour, all smiles, helping me get the iPhone set up (it's originally set up for Thai, not English, naturally). Everything works! I install Google Maps and Uber, easily, and I'm good to go.

I wish I had taken more pictures today, especially of the mall, which was trippy and photogenic, but I was too absorbed by my experience, so I'll just mention that outside the mall, was, no surprise, a dense market of food stalls, street musicians, and, above the din, at the top of the steps leading up to the mall, a concert being given by a Thai singer-guitarist who sounded great. I didn't recognize a single song, even though he was singing in English and the tunes seemed to be Western pop, but he presented earnestly, was a good guitarist, and his vocals were really good. I picked up a skewer of 3 prawns, each as big as one of my hands while I waited for the Uber. Deliscious. I washed it down with some fresh juice, blended on the spot, and the Uber came. I spent the rest of the night setting up my phone, doing some more writing (this) - and I was done. Little man, you've had a big day. I went to sleep delighted.


Food and Diet 
2017 Weight chart (will be used until there are enough data points in 2018)
Today's Weight:                       ???  lbs.
Previous Weight (1/1/18):            199.7 lbs.
  Diet Comment
I've decided not to buy a scale, so, after this post, no more Food and Diet section until I'm back in the US. For what its worth, I think it is impossible to not gain weight here...

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Thursday, January 4, 2018

#2001, Thursday, January 4


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First report: The trip to Chiang Mai.

It pays to have friends, especially my friend Al, who was pretty insistent I let him take me to the airport instead of an Uber or a cab. So, he picked me up at 4am, in 1-degree temperature, and that was the last time I didn't have to wait on anything on my trip.

I sailed through TSA (even though I did have to wait on line for the first time for TSA Pre (which I get as a benefit for surviving past the age of sixty-five), which left me quite a bit of time, even though there's nothing to do at four-thirty in the morning at Hancock Airport.

The flight to JFK was uneventful. There was a long walk from Terminal 5 to the AirTran station to go to Terminal 4, the International arrivals building. Once I got there, I was confronted with Disney-esque queue lines to check in. After the long drag, I was happy to check my old, cherished duffel bag. It was a good thing to do, as the walks and waits would only get longer down the line.

I couldn't sleep on any of my flights. This wasn't too bad on the long leg (JFK->Guangzhou), because they had two things: A good movie selection (although every movie had Chinese subtitles with no options, but there were more than one hundred offerings(!). I watched Inside Out, Hidden Factors, Furious 7, and The King's Speech). The other thing was the frequent and tasty meals the whole flight. The flight got behind schedule and arrived in Guangzhou for the connection to Chiang Mai in sixteen (not fifteen) hours.

This resulted in the airlines rushing me through all the China bureaucracy/security to get on my connecting flight (this was the biggest airport I've ever seen, buses take you from gigantic terminal to gigantic terminal, and even when I was in the right terminal, It took me 25 minutes to walk from customs to my gate within the same terminal. More than a mile). Spoiler alert: Funny enough, while I was able to go through Chinese customs, and walk to my plane, my checked bag with all my summer weight clothes didn't make it in time.

The flight from Guangzhou was quite another thing. Slightly smaller plane, one drop-down TV screen every 3 rows, no control over the psychedelic Chinese martial arts/love story/mystical fantasy movie that played, seemingly, for exactly the two-plus hour flight. Just after takeoff, I felt like I had a runny nose, which turned out to be bloody - a nose bleed from nowhere. My window seat overlooking nothing but clouds pinned me in during and after takeoff, and I embarrassingly used strips of the barf bag to wipe the blood from my hands, mustache and nostrils. I tried to keep it to myself, but somebody must have seen, because after a few minutes one of the flight attendants gave me a handful of tissues and wet towelettes. The bleeding had stopped, the proferred clean-up stuff did its job, and it was all over but the getting rid of the bloody stuff. Then, there was only a couple of hours of boredom - phones were prohibited the entire flight.

My AirBnB host, John, picked me up at the airport. He waited patiently by the baggage claim; I waved to him as I worked on my lost baggage claim. He told me it was early enough to pick up some duds for tomorrow, and took me clothes shopping at a mall fairly nearby (not cheap like EVERYTHING else here). I ended up with some very bright, very Euro-style clothes, nothing made locally, and I was a little surprised and taken back at how much money I spent. Oh, well.

Later, at the condo, he installed a new sim card in my phone. Unfortunately, I couldn't get the internet connection I paid for from my new Thai carrier, although everything indicated I should be able to. A mystery. One that had to get resolved tomorrow, somehow, because I can't rely on wireless when I need Uber or to translate something. Now it was too late to do anything.

My condo is nicely appointed and convenient to a great food market - I don't have to go far for my food. But it is located a fair bit away from the City Center. I had spent a couple of hours with John, and we easily hit it off. Upon hearing that I was a musician, he asked if I might be interested in playing at an open mic. When I said I would like that, he told me he'd get me the info, and said he'd like to attend when I went. I got that warm at-home feeling.

I'm still having a good time. I am Happy Jack.

Food and Diet 
2017 Weight chart (will be used until there are enough data points in 2018)
  Diet Comment
The airline food was very good. I ate a variety of Chinese-style food, some of which was Chinese and Chinese versions of American fare. It seemed like I got three meals and also snacks during my long flight to China, then another meal and more snacks on my flight to Chiang Mai. I did not eat on plan, nor did I try to. No scale, no idea what the food was, so no Food Log today.


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Monday, January 1, 2018

#2000, January 1, 2018: New Year's Resolutions


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New Year's Resolutions: I don't make them.

But I do make some decisions.

I have decided to use this blog to document my trip to Thailand (it was a request). I have also decided to buy a scale and check my body weight. I will try to take pics of the food I eat, but since I expect to eat 100% of my meals in public, it will not be complete: I don't want to be obnoxious to other diners. Also, I may not always be know what I'm eating (language barrier). I'll play that one by ear.

I've also decided to get serious about reducing my possessions - something I was supposed to start quite a while ago, but abandoned when I decided not to move overseas as soon as I retired.

Okay, that is pretty much it on the 'resolutions' front.

Last night's New Year's Eve gig was a pleasant lightweight affair. I guess it was better than I anticipated. I don't like the venue and I don't like the owner, but that is off of some experiences there that are now over three years old. Still, he's a cheap bastard, and going back more than 50 years, I have never known anybody to play a NYE gig for the $70 per man he was paying. I like the guy who put the band together for this gig, and when he asked if I would play with him on it, I accepted without knowing the details. If I had been asked to play this venue for that money up front, I probably would have refused.

Going into the gig, I had some concerns that I wouldn't be prepared - of the sixty songs on the list I was given, there were ten I had never heard, and another fifteen or so I wasn't very familiar with, or thought they might be too tricky to play without rehearsal. I did some preparation, but really didn't put in the effort required to master the list. Given the venue, maybe I was reluctant to work for that.

My concerns were overblown. There were some screw-ups, but nothing serious, and no more than the other guys were doing. It was an easy, fun gig. I got to work with three musicians I knew, but had not worked with before, only jammed with two of them once or twice. The mood was light and easy. All good.

Today is about year-end bookkeeping, trip preparation including housework and storing my music gear, and a party.

I couldn't have planned this, but I notice the New Year's Day blog is my two-thousandth. Starting the year on a nice even note!

I will be a very lucky guy if this coming year is nearly as good as 2017 was. But, I'm the luckiest guy I know. And damned grateful for it, too. Happy New Year, 2018.


Food and Diet 
2017 Weight chart (will be used until there are enough data points in 2018)
Today's Weight:                      201.0 lbs.
Previous Weight (12/29/17):          200.0 lbs.
Net Loss/Gain:                       + 1.0 lbs.
  Diet Comment
I'm sure I gained that pound on last night's New Year's Eve gig, which had a carb-heavy buffet, and more than my usual amount of alcohol consumption. Also, I have decided to continue my blog during my trip to Chiang Mai, more for documenting my adventures than tracking my weight, but I just might buy a scale and do that, too.

Food Log
Breakfast
Skipped.

Lunch
7:25pm: Bacon and eggs and a chopped salad (Spring Mix greens, spinach, red cabbage, shaved parmesan cheese, walnuts, creamy balsamic dressing).

Dinner
12:25am: A Quest bar.

Liquid Intake
   Espressos: 0;   Coffee: 0 oz.;  Tea: 0 oz.;  Water: 64+ oz.;

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Friday, December 29, 2017

#1999, Friday, December 29: Happy New Year!


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What a wonderful year this has been. What a wonderful life I have.

I am not going to reminisce much, only in generalities, but I want to talk about where things are at the end of the year.

I started this blog as a food journal and weight loss record January 1, 2011. On July 1, 2011, I made my goal weight of two-hundred pounds. This year, after spending most of February in Florida, not blogging (or weighing myself), I came back at my second highest weight since I reached that goal. The rest of the year was making sure, even on my New Orleans and Los Angeles trips, that I stayed well under that, and ended the year exactly at my original goal weight.

I had a couple of health issues during the year, none severe, and none still bothering me. I am, however, becoming arthritic. I feel it mostly in my hands and knees. It isn't bad or debilitating now. That is the only new health concern that I'll be taking into the new year.

Musically, the year ended on a high note. I am Fool's last gig of the year was, as far as I'm concerned, the best concert we ever gave. The last few gigs with Scuba Gear have been nothing less than triumphant (that includes, btw, tonight's gig. We will be rehired in a tough club. This is a band that didn't exist last year, Scuba Gear. This has brought me much joy, and I believe next year will see a lot more playing time with SG, as I believe we will become more popular - this year didn't really get going until after the summer. December's house bass gig at Rooter's was also off the hook - great nights of jamming. And all my other open mic-related activities have been rewarding.

I expect all of this to carry through into 2018. I am certain my bands are going to do better, be more active, reach more people. The open mic jamming which has been the highlight of my time in Syracuse doesn't seem to have any kind of end-date or show any signs of diminishing.

My travels in 2017 were more than memorable. Great times with great friends. I did every bit of traveling I wanted in 2017, and then some. 2018 will be even more intense. Thailand, North Carolina, Florida, New Orleans, Los Angeles are all definite, and you never know...

Financially, things are looking good. All by itself, Social Security and my two small pensions are adequate. I made about twenty-four hundred dollars at playing, a multi-year low, but, given that I was out of town for much more time than ever before, I'm happy. I also made about three thousand dollars in my trading account, which I closed a few months ago, because it was dominating my time and becoming an emotional problem. My retirement portfolio, consisting of a self-managed Traditional IRA account and a small regular account, have been purposed, from day one (only eight years ago), to give me the maximum dividend income, and in that and every respect, the bull market that began when I started my accounts has delivered handsomely, rising in capital amount and dividend income to the point where I believe I will not have to touch the capital once I start withdrawing from these accounts in 2020. Something to celebrate, indeed. My focus on dividends means I am not so worried about the bull market ending or a huge loss in portfolio value. None of these directly affect dividends.

I got a lot closer to some friends, and made some new friends. I said final farewells to a few. My relationships are solid. What will 2018 bring? Well, we're all a little closer to death, but my peers are all moving into the upper sixties. I'll have to remember nothing is forever, and that there is no death. Hopefully, in the coming year I'll be able to see more of my friends, spend more time with them, and have the opportunity to express my gratitude for their part in my life, my happiness.

I don't dwell on regrets, but I have a few this year, mostly how I didn't see my closest friends downstate as often as I would have liked. I regret failing to clean my apartment, despite making plans to do so over and over again. I regret that I have more stuff now than when the year began. That's really all I can think of.

2017 was mostly glorious. I can't express my gratitude at how my life has worked out. Glad I showed up this year, and will carry my optimism forward. I hope the New Year brings you love and health and everything you wish.

Note: I will write a blog entry for New Years Day, which will be posted January 2nd, then I am traveling to Thailand for three weeks. I may post some stuff from there, no promises, but if I do, it won't have this format. I'll make a post or two when I get back, then I'm traveling again. It is entirely possible after January 2nd, the next post won't be until March. I love you and hope you will be kind to and take care of yourself.

Food and Diet 
Final weight chart of the year! Low 199.8, Average: 204.75, High 217.2
Today's Weight:                      200.0 lbs.
Previous Weight (12/28/17):          200.1 lbs.
Net Loss/Gain:                       - 0.1 lbs.
  Diet Comment
The official last weigh-in of the year, and I have met my goal. Perfectly. What a year! After a huge weight gain down in Florida (February), and a lesser but still large gain in Los Angeles (October), I mostly managed to stay under 205 pounds, and I'm very happy with the results this year. 

Food Log
Breakfast
5:50pm: Cauliflower-Quorn casserole (Quorn [mushroom-based beef substitute], cauliflower, chia seeds, hemp seeds, Grandpa's Sauce [sausage, pepper and onion pasta sauce] with shaved parmesan cheese).

Snack
8:45pm: pm: Walnuts.

Snack
2:45am: pm: A Quest bar.

Dinner
3:35am: The rest of the Cauliflower casserole (no cheese).

Liquid Intake
   Espressos: 1;   Coffee: 18 oz.;  Tea: 0 oz.;  Water: 64+ oz.;  

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Thursday, December 28, 2017

#1998, Thursday, December 28


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Food and Diet 
Today's Weight:                      200.1 lbs.
Previous Weight (12/27/17):          201.7 lbs.
Net Loss/Gain:                       - 1.6 lbs.
  Diet Comment
I'm not certain what caused Tuesday's spike, but it's done and gone. Today's gigantic late dinner may not be what I needed to maintain the low weight, but it was entirely on-plan, so maybe. Tomorrow is the last weigh-in of the year, so let's hope...

Food Log
Breakfast
Skipped.

Lunch
7:45pm: Green-purple protein smoothie with coconut-almond milk, kefir, large organic egg, chia gel, kale, spinach, blueberries, cherries, strawberries, whey powder (24g protein), coconut oil, hemp seeds, hemp protein (7g protein), raw organic cacao powder, moringa leaf powder, celery, cinnamon, turmeric, vanilla extract, Dr. Gundry's Vital Reds and stevia-inulin blend.

Dinner
12:25am: Dubliner cheese with walnuts, cole slaw, scrambled eggs with parmesan cheese and bacon, and a Quest bar.

Liquid Intake
   Espressos: 0;   Coffee: 22 oz.;  Tea: 0 oz.;  Water: 54+ oz.;  and two shots of Jameson's Irish whiskey

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Wednesday, December 27, 2017

#1997, Wednesday, December 27: Travel plans


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It is one week until I leave for Thailand.

I will catch an Uber to Hancock airport around 4am, for a flight to JFK that departs at 5:30am.

There's a two-and-a-half hour layover at JFK, which is okay, because I'll have to go through airport security again (carry-on luggage, different terminal at JFK).

My flight to Guangzhou, China is a little more than fourteen hours long. After a short layover there, I fly directly to Chiang Mai, Thailand.

Twenty-seven hours from Syracuse to Chiang Mai is incredibly fast, considering there were no flights from the US to there only six months ago, and that even now, other flights using different stopover airports take between thirty and forty-plus hours, with stopovers that range from eight to twenty hours - almost the length of my whole flight to China. Ahh, modern times.

I've been preparing a bit each day, and have done an insane (by my stay-away-from-malls, shopping isn't fun standard) amount of retail spending. I bought a good, cheap laptop to take instead of my expensive MacBook Pro, then spent a couple of hundred bucks on updates; tropical-weight travel pants; a passport wallet; cloth slip-on walking shoes (Skechers GoWalk 4 Performance, thanks for asking); an early refill on my synthroid medication.

The simple purpose of my trip is to see Chiang Mai, which has been at the top of my list of retirement destinations for years now, and has spent more time in that position than any other place on the planet. A considerable feat, given that I made my first list (Panama was at the top then) twenty-five years ago.

In that regard, early the morning of my first full day in Chiang Mai, I'll be going to a breakfast meeting hosted by the Chiang Mai Expats club. There's no agenda, it's just a time and place for expats to get together and hang. What's it like? No idea. That's what makes it exciting.

I have some other things I want to do: Visit an elephant sanctuary, have a conversation with a Buddhist monk, get a blind massage (the world's only school of massage for blind women is in Chiang Mai), go to the night market, the wet market, and eat, eat, eat.

I'll check out the music scene. I'll visit art museums. I'll go out with no plan, no goal - just to look around. And, most importantly, I'll meet people.

And I will stay loose, flexible, keeping planning to a minimum, open to new ideas, suggestions and experiences. For eighteen whole days (the total trip is three weeks, losing three days to travel). I can do that!

This is the culmination of sixty years of fascination with this part of the world, with Asian culture. Something in The King and I and Anna and the King of Siam started that sixty some years ago. I've wanted to go to Siam/Thailand for that long. I am so grateful to finally be undertaking that journey!
Food and Diet 
Today's Weight:                      201.7 lbs.
Previous Weight (12/26/17):          203.7 lbs.
Net Loss/Gain:                       - 2.0 lbs.
Diet Comment
Yesterday's weight gain looks like an outlier, since most of it came right off. Today should bring me back down to range.
Food Log
Breakfast
1:15pm, at CoreLife Eatery:
Make-your-own bowl: free-range chicken, kale, mesclun, broccoli, shiitake mushrooms, edamame, cherry tomatoes, ginger, spicy Thai sauce,  and chicken bone broth.
Lunch
5:15pm, at CoreLife Eatery:
Chicken Cobb salad (shredded kale and spinach, grilled chicken, avocado, bacon, hard-cooked egg and blue cheese dressing with a little sriracha). Not shown: A Quest bar.
Dinner
1:45am: Dubliner cheese with walnuts and a Quest bar.

Liquid Intake
   Espressos: 1;   Coffee: 0 oz.;  Tea: 0 oz.;  Water: 72+ oz.;  and two shots of Jameson's Irish whiskey

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